Top Knot vs Oversized Bow: Which Baby Headband Style Should You Choose?
If you’re shopping for baby bows for the first time, you’ve probably noticed there are two styles everywhere lately: top knots and oversized bows. Both are soft, stretchy, adjustable, and adorable — but they create very different looks on your baby girl.
At Harper + Remi, we designed both styles to be comfortable enough for newborns while still making every outfit feel a little extra special. Whether you’re choosing bows for hospital photos, everyday outfits, milestone pictures, or your baby’s coming home outfit, this guide will help you decide which style fits your aesthetic best.

What Is a Top Knot Baby Headband?
A top knot is a softer, more classic baby headband style. The knot sits flatter against the head and gives a timeless, minimal look that many moms love for newborns and everyday wear.
Dusty Pink Ribbed Headband (top knot / baby size)
Top knots are especially popular for:
- Hospital photos
- Coming home outfits
- Everyday neutral outfits
- Minimal baby style
- Newborn girls
Many moms describe the look as:
- sweet
- classic
- effortless
Because the knot is smaller and flatter, top knots tend to feel especially tiny and newborn-friendly while still growing beautifully with your baby.
Cream Pointelle Headband (top knot, newborn size)
What Is an Oversized Bow Baby Headband?
Oversized bows are fuller, more statement-making, and designed to stand out a little more in photos. They create that “every outfit needs a bow” look that moms of baby girls instantly understand.
Light Pink Ribbed Headband (oversized bow, baby size)
Oversized bows are especially popular for:
- Milestone photos
- Holiday outfits
- Birth announcements
- Special occasions
- Moms who love a more girly or trendy look
The bow itself has more volume and becomes the focal point of the outfit — even when the outfit underneath is simple.
White Pointelle Headband (oversized bow, newborn size)
Many moms love oversized bows because:
- they photograph beautifully
- they make simple outfits feel styled
- they add personality instantly
- they create that iconic baby girl look
Top Knot vs Oversized Bow: Side-by-Side Comparison

| Top Knot | Oversized Bow |
|---|---|
| Softer, more minimal look | Fuller, statement look |
| Especially popular for newborns | Especially popular for photos |
| Classic and timeless | Trendy and eye-catching |
| Great for everyday outfits | Great for special outfits |
| Smaller silhouette | More dramatic silhouette |
| Easy neutral styling | Makes the bow the centerpiece |